I found out that the my church has a wedding scheduled at 3:00 the same day i am getting married. I would need to have my ceremony at 1:00 if i want to use the church. Im worried that puts too much time in between the ceremony and reception. If at 1:00 this would be my plan, 1:00 - 1:45 ceremony, cocktail hour with hors d'oeurvres at 4:00 and dinner at 5:00. It is also a 20 minute drive to the reception venue. Is that too much dead time in between the ceremony and cocktail hour?