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Onya
Expert October 2020

Thoughts? Venue related. Seating and alcohol.

Onya, on March 10, 2020 at 1:02 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 9

So we have been approved for our venue (OMG YAY) which is at my mother's neighborhood clubhouse in Vegas. It is beautiful and we have both the entertainment room (indoors) and the patio BBQ area which is outdoors. One level. There are 66 total on our guest list if they all use their plus ones and their spouses come. (I have not sent out any Save the Dates or Invitations. Wedding 4/3/21)

Situation #1 : Entertainment room is only allowed to have 50 people in it at one time. The patio BBQ area does not have the same limit and has seating as well. Would if be weird to use both spaces as the reception and let guests know that there are only 50 people allowed in the entertainment room at the time? I was thinking of spacing out the seating because of this! Having 33 or so seated in the entertainment room and 33 in the patio BBQ area seating. The space does already have seating and chairs so that would save us so much money. Decorations will really transform the spaces.

Situation #2: The patio BBQ area is alcohol forbidden while in the entertainment room it is allowed. We were already going to inform guests that they couldn't bring alcohol outside but how do I handle it now that some may be seated outside and some inside? Is it possible to effectively rotate people? I feel like this could happen naturally since some do not drink.

Venue is only costing us $75/hr(A DREAM). We walked in there and knew it was going to be the place we were going to get married. I was thinking that instead of us just having ONE "sweet heart" table we could make a space for us outside AND inside. Also thinking of having a DJ inside and having playlist outside. Also having multiple food stations for both the inside and outside. It has wall to ceiling windows so people inside can see outside people and vice versa. So much light. Toasts/games will happen outside so everyone is involved.

The more I think about it the more I want to do the half in half out to invite everyone I wanted. But if I don't do it my list will go back down to 50 and I will take off some plus ones and not invite a few couples. *insert crying emoji*

Thanks for reading all of this! Looking forward to your feedback.

(Ceremony will be in the same space. In this scenario it would be outside so everyone is included.)


9 Comments

Latest activity by Meghan, on March 10, 2020 at 5:53 PM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think it sounds better to just have your list down to 50
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I would cut your list. I don't see a way this could actually work. I think it would be rude to expect some people to sit outside while others can still inside especially if you have people that want to drink or dance inside but you already have too many inside. Also what happens in the event of bad whether?
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  • Onya
    Expert October 2020
    Onya ·
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    Thanks Melle. I think we may keep it at 50. Some just won't have plus ones and I'll have to not invite some couples. If we keep it at 50 it'll be less stress.

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  • Onya
    Expert October 2020
    Onya ·
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    Vegas doesn't really get bad weather but I get what you're trying to say. That's why I was thinking FH and I would sit outside. But the more I think about it, it sounds like it will become stressful.

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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I think it would be difficult to regulate how many people are inside at any given time. I also think it would be difficult to enforce the no alcohol rule. Unfortunately I think you'd end up having to play babysitter rather than enjoying your wedding. If it were me I would eliminate anyone that isn't in a relationship or if you included children I would make it an adults only wedding. The other option would be a different venue to accommodate everyone.
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  • Onya
    Expert October 2020
    Onya ·
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    Your right. I do not want that to happen. My wedding is already adults only so no children will be there. I think I may eliminate some friends as well sadly.

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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    I agree with others to cut it down to 50 unfortunately. I wouldn’t want you to spend your wedding day stressed about if the people eating outside accidentally brought a glass of wine outside to their table.
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  • Onya
    Expert October 2020
    Onya ·
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    Cutting my list now. It was a nice plan in my head but it seems more unreasonable now. LOL.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    I would cut your guest list. As a guest, I would excluded if I was put separately from the rest of the guests, especially if you and your (then) H were sitting in the other room. I think it looks much more inviting to keep everyone together.

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