Thoughts on going to first dress fitting alone?

If you lived closer to me, I would totally go with you!! (Sorry, is that weird?)

I haven't started alterations on my dress yet so I cannot speak from experience, but here are some general thoughts.

Are you getting your alterations done in the shop where you bought the dress? If so, one (or more) of the customer service ladies at the bridal shop may be able to help you. I always found them to be very helpful (I almost always went dress shopping alone, and actually picked my dress when I was alone).

If it's a salon or shop that's large (like David's Bridal or Alfred Angelo), there may be other brides and families there that would be willing to offer their opinion (assuming you would value the opinions of strangers). This happened to me at Alfred Angelo, and it was a little awkward at first, but VERY helpful in the end!

Is there someone that you would want to go with you who can't because of distance? If so, you could always Skype with them while you're at the appointment. Personally, I would do this before I would take someone who's opinion you don't really trust or value.

Could you ask the seamstress to give you just a day or two to think about the decisions? I know things have to move quickly, but it might help put your mind at ease if you're able to stop, breathe, and think things out; rather than being pressured to make a final decision on the spot.

Just some ideas. Hope they are helpful!

I took my mom with me - it was nice to have a second set of eyes. I would take a friend or family member with you, if you can!

I went alone; it was my preference and it turned out well. You mentioned that you don't value this person's opinion...so why would have them with you? It might confuse the seamstress...and possibly you.

Go alone. Your opinion is the one that counts.

I didn't have a choice BUT to go alone. Of course I only needed very minor alterations, but the salon owner and seamstress were there for support and help. Rely on them if you don't have anyone. Trust your instincts.

I went by myself, asked the seamstress to take pics, sent them to my parents and a couple fashionista friends (lol), and sat there and chilled while they got back to me. Though all of them were warned that they'd be getting these pics at so and so time, so they were waiting for them and got back to me right away.

I had my mom come with me and we were literally in and out. Maybe the 2nd fitting will be less pointless for her to be there.

I went by myself and it worked out really well, cause I didn't have too many opinions being tossed around, making me second guess myself. If you have someone you really want to go with you, then go for it, but if not, sometimes it can be nice to go alone! Always go with your gut and with what makes you happy! =)

I went alone and was totally ok with it, sometimes to many hens in the hen house can create more of a stressful situation.

I have gone to both of mine alone and plan on going to the last ones alone too. I don't know, I just prefer to go alone. My mom kept asking if I wanted her there but that made me feel more stressed so I stick with my solo plan.

I went to all my alterations appointments alone (except the last one) and had no problem (my dress was from Alfred Angelo and I had the alterations there as well). The seamstress suggested a bustle and I figured that as she is the only seamstress for the store she probably knew best (I loved the way it came out and ended up decided to just leave it bustled the whole time instead of having the train "open" for the ceremony). I am sorry you don't have someone who's opinion really matters to go with you; my suggestion is to speak with the seamstress as they usually know what's best and what will work (or not work) for your dress.

I've gone to all of mine alone. I wanted my mother's opinions didn't overpower mine. I asked the seamstress her opinion and one random customer at my last appt. I absolutely love how it turned out (I changed a lot... the neckline, the back the bottom of the skirt, the # of layers, etc etc). I'm happy I went alone.

I went to all of my fittings alone with the exception of my last one, when it was almost done. I found I was able to communicate with the seamstress much more easily since there were no distractions. They are the professionals and I didn't think a lot of extra input was necessary - alterations are pretty straight forward.

I went alone to my first fitting, and honestly, it was probably better that way. The seamstress helped get me into my long-line bra and though a little awkward, I am sure she has seen tons of half naked women before. I didn't need a whole bunch done and the appointment lasted about half an hour at most once I was in the dress. If you are worried, have them take pictures, but trust me you can see everything in those 360 mirrors. Your alterations person should know best what kind of bustle will work with your dress, so I would trust them.

I went alone to my first fitting, and honestly, it was probably better that way. The seamstress helped get me into my long-line bra and though a little awkward, I am sure she has seen tons of half naked women before. I didn't need a whole bunch done and the appointment lasted about half an hour at most once I was in the dress. If you are worried, have them take pictures, but trust me you can see everything in those 360 mirrors. Your alterations person should know best what kind of bustle will work with your dress, so I would trust them.

I'm going to mine alone, I think. I'm not having anything drastic done, so hopefully it will be ok. FH will have to help me get into my bustier before I go, which should be interesting...

I went alone. The seamstress showed me a few different bustles and she agreed with the choice I made. It turned out great, was easy for my friend to do without any practice and stayed well for the entire reception. Don't over think it. It'll be fine.

I would try to find someone to go with you. It's not the end of the world if you can't, but I think it would put you more at ease. My mom came to every fitting until the last one. She was with my sister while she was having her baby. At first I thought I would be fine by myself, but the day before the fitting I realized I was pretty worried about it. Luckily my cousin, who was also a bridesmaid, was able to come with me. I felt so much better just knowing someone would be there with a second pair of eyes.

I am going alone, i will just ask to get pictures taken. but i feel ya.

Thanks ladies! Right now I'm intending on flying solo, thankfully last night my brother offered to go with me; growing up with three older sisters he admits he is very in touch with his feminine side and I actually highly value his opinion lol! He was actually the one who helped me pick the specialty lace for my gown, however I feel kind of bad dragging him along because he works in a shop without AC and usually comes home covered in grime and completely sweaty. Not exactly the best idea dragging him into a bridal salon lol!

Fine Greetings!

If it's not possible to be accompanied by a friend, please remember that if it's an outstanding Bridal Salon -- with expert seamstresses -- they are experts in their field. They do this, every single day, and they should really be able to expertly guide you on the alterations/tailoring of the gown, so that it totally flatters you and fits your body like a glove.

But, still, I sure understand that it's nice to have company and feedback from a friend! If not, you will be in good professional hands.

Most Sincerely,

Michele