I went in for a first fitting the other day and have been elated with the dress I picked... then my mom took a picture from what she said was a "flattering" angle. HA. Anyway, I hated my arms! And I recalled that a friend wore a bolero cardigan through her ceremony and I thought it was very pretty - it was a dark red. So I considered the same... I'm also kind of afraid of looking like an idiot. What is the general consensus on boleros? My dress is pretty simple (aside from a bow on the front empire wasteline).