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Michelle
Super October 2020

Thoughts on asking entire bridal party to wear a cultural bridesmaid dress also?

Michelle, on January 4, 2020 at 4:12 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 22

I am wearing a Thai wedding dress for part of my reception. I really like the idea of Thai bridesmaid dresses but never asked my bridal party (my three sisters, my cousin, and my two future sister in laws) to wear one because I didn't want them to spend more money. However, the bridesmaid dresses...

I am wearing a Thai wedding dress for part of my reception. I really like the idea of Thai bridesmaid dresses but never asked my bridal party (my three sisters, my cousin, and my two future sister in laws) to wear one because I didn't want them to spend more money. However, the bridesmaid dresses they can pick out themselves from Azazie which ranges $60-150 depending on if there is a sale and the style they want. The Thai bridesmaid dress is about $60-80 depending on the style as well.

My sisters came to me asking why aren't they wearing Thai dresses and would love to wear one as part of our culture. I thought it'd be a bit weird to have only part of the wedding party change so I asked my cousin and my two sister in laws. My cousin is Thai so she had no problem. My two sister in laws ignored my text messages where I had to follow up several hours later if they got it and just explain what I'm telling you all now but I am not requiring anyone to wear it.

They just said it was up to me if I wanted them to wear one...when I asked them in the first place if THEY wanted to and if they're comfortable with it but they seem to not want to wear one but will for me. They're Cambodian so it's a similar culture, they can wear the dress to the temple, and they've bought Thai skirts before for Cambodian events so it's not like a waste.

I asked them in the first place to see if they felt comfortable with it and leaving it up to them but they want me to choose for them. I would have them all wear it but I feel bad about the extra money since they're not exactly Thai and they don't seem to want to really wear one.

Thoughts? Is it okay to have part of the bridal party wear the Thai dress?

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  • Tanyia
    Expert February 2020
    Tanyia ·
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    I think its fine as long as they arent to purchasing two dresses.


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  • Laura
    Super September 2026
    Laura ·
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    My take is that they are all getting the bridesmaid dress that isn't cultural, end of story. But, your sisters have asked if they can switch into Thai attire for the celebration after temple/church/ceremony. I'd give the SILs a pass - and tell them to enjoy the American bridesmaid dress all night. And I'd tell your sisters to embrace the Thai attire following formal portraits.

    **I doubt they would be the only 2 to decide to wear cultural attire when a certain clothing is common for temple, etc. You might even add to your website or on a card with your invite that cultural dress is welcome.


    This is a great way to honor both sides! And I say go for it!

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