Thinking about not having a bridal party

I only had my son and daughter along with husbands son. We were an older bride and groom. All are adults and it was perfect!

We're not planning one. We never felt that strongly about it, so when we started doing our budget, we realized we could save a lot of money cutting the BP between gifts, hair/makeup, and rehearsal dinner. There's just not much of a value add that we can see.

I only have a maid of honor and a best man. We decided this from the beginning and the MOH is my sister and BM his FHs brother

Don't do it!

Smaller or non-existent BP's are less stressful, less expensive and less chaotic on the day. Presuming that all your guests are honored guests, I personally would not feel the need to assemble a BP, and I bet that they would love to bypass the expense and time it takes to be in one.

We originally said yes let's do this extravagant WP. But then I was in my one of my friends wedding where she had 13 BMs and fuck was it the most drama in my entire life. So I said hell no and am only doing 1 MOH, my sister and 1 BM, FSIL. FH will have his 2 brothers.

Both of us will just have our siblings on either side of us (2 each).

I'm thrilled to have them up there with us, and neither of us had to deal with deciding which friends were close enough to be standing up front with us.

My sister will be my MOH and my FH's brother will be his BM. That's it for our WP.

I'm just having my sister as MOH and FH is having a BM. I didn't want to have a bunch of girls that would cause drama when all I really need are the most important people in my life (FH and MOH)

I'm not having one and no one seems to mind.

I didn't have one, and it was great. Much less stress (and less planning and money). No one minded at all.

I am an only child, my DH did have a brother who passed away. It would be too painful for DH to deal with selecting a best man. We are going with no bridal party.

I did not want a wedding party and FH did. I gave in and I'm fine with it. It'll be nice to have my friends and family stand with me that day. The reasons I didn't want a party was because (1) it's an added expense to friends and family that I know they can't afford and (2) I wanted it to just be the two of us. He has always imagined his wedding day with his very good friends by his side. I always imagined my wedding day with my FH and I, just us two. There's nothing wrong with not having a party and there's nothing wrong with having one. You still have time to figure out what you want to do but don't want to wait too long, especially if dresses need to be ordered.