Love #2, though I would not want that much of a train. #1 looks like many other body hugging sheaths or fit and flare styles you can wear on lots of occasions. The #2 dress is once in a lifetime. Get a body hugging dress to wear on your honeymoon, or for New Year's Eve.
Get both and do a dress change, that is what I am doing dress 2 do ceremony, dress 1 for dancing. . But if you cannot do that then I love dress 2, the detail its gorgeous.