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The night before the wedding - Bridesmaids?

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KellySD, on May 18, 2015 at 4:38 PM

I was thinking of getting a suite or two for my Bridesmaids and I for the night before the wedding. Two of them have SO's that are invited to the rehearsal dinner and the wedding, three are not bringing guests (as of now anyway). Is it rude to expect them all to stay together with me the night before when they have SO's coming with them? Should I nix the idea and just let them get rooms with their SO's the night before and we can meet up first thing in the morning on the wedding day? What are you all doing?

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Zoe · on May 18, 2015 at 8:05 PM
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It would not be for me. Last time I was in a wedding, I was So Done by the end of the wedding-- I can't imagine if it had all started the night before! I agree with everyone else. Just ask, but don't expect it, and please don't be hurt if some (or all) decline-- it really isn't you, it's just that everyone has a different tolerance level for togetherness and revelry.
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Kassie · on May 18, 2015 at 8:13 PM
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I presented the ideas to my BM's and they thought it sounded like fun
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Zoni · on May 19, 2015 at 4:54 AM
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Definitely ask. I asked mine, and we opted to share a hotel room. It was a good choice for us because it saves money, they're all coming from out of town and, well, it's my last night to get to spend with all of them like that. I know a lot of other brides want to sleep next to their future spouse but, well, I've got the rest of my life to do that -- I wanted a night to spend with my closest friends.
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