My fiancé and I are getting married in a year. We’ve been slowly getting the wedding party proposal gift ready for when everyone is back home for the holidays.
The gentleman who is being (somehow) considered best man is horrendous. I hate that word but brace yourself.
From day 1 he has continually asked my now fiancé to help him wheel females and talk to the friends in the bars/every situation. My fiancé declines and always has.This gentleman is not that, and I could use many words but they would be flagged as unsafe.He was a terrible boyfriend in the last relationship and continues to act up. If he was one of my girl friends there would have been an ultimatum and told to delete my number.Now, every time he is drinking he is calling me names that would be flagged and he does it for no reason. I could be talking to someone else in a good convo and he’ll just spew out words and profanities at me.My fiancé is still considering him for best man due to it being his oldest friend. Somehow he’s under the impression it needs to be that instead of someone who has been the most supportive of your new relationship and now life partner. Which is every other guy he’s friends with.How do I get this person away from us? It’s not healthy and I’m tired of hearing oh it’s just how he is… that’s not an excuse folks.