How many gifts are you buying? Did you budget in all the gifts? I never realized the bride and groom buy so many gifts for others for their wedding. I've been a bridesmaid a few times and have thrown a few showers/parties and have never gotten a gift, but it seems to be the norm on here to give lots of gifts.
Bridal Shower hosts gifts
Bachelorette hosts gifts
Gifts for you future spouse on the day
Flower Girl / Ring Bearer