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JerseyGirl
Master May 2017

Thank you speech/toast?

JerseyGirl, on May 12, 2017 at 7:44 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

So now I realize the one thing that I forgot to do!

FH and I cannot remember the bride and/or groom doing a thank you toast/speech to the guests. However it is something that we would like to do but what do we say? I am leaning towards a more general thanks for coming and celebrating with us. FH is talking about thanking his parents, his siblings, my family, and something special for his niece who we are hoping can attend after undergoing chemo this week for the first time.

If it helps, we aren't having a lot of speeches. My grandmother is doing a blessing and FH's sister is doing a toast.

Thoughts? Suggestions? Examples?

10 Comments

Latest activity by S&J, on May 12, 2017 at 9:34 AM
  • KittyPrawn
    Master June 2017
    KittyPrawn ·
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    I plan on doing a thank you toast to gets. I want to recognize my family that came across the country and thank people for coming.

    I don't think it has to be anything major. Google might have some examples. Go ahead and plagiarize!

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  • New
    VIP May 2017
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    I think it's nice to toast your guests with a thank you. As long as it's heartfelt and not inauguration speech length, you'll be fine. Cheers!

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  • JerseyGirl
    Master May 2017
    JerseyGirl ·
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    So he just mentioned he wanted to thank his siblings...not for anything wedding related but for like growing up together. Do people do that?

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  • Alyssa B.
    Super April 2017
    Alyssa B. ·
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    We didn't do a toast but we went around individually and thanked everyone.

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  • Anne
    Master April 2017
    Anne ·
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    We did a thank you speech - DH did a general intro, then I specifically thanked people for coming, thanked our wedding party, and our parents/family. He then thanked our grandparents and said a sweet toast about me Smiley smile

    It was maybe 2 minutes in length total.

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  • Amanda
    Master January 2017
    Amanda ·
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    My husband and I totally forgot to do this and I regret it so much!! We would have thanked everyone for coming out, probably made a joke about the bad weather, how grateful we were to have such amazing people witness our nuptials, made a special thank you to our parents/grandparents and wedding party, and then told them all to get busy on the dance floor lol.

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  • Chelsealeigh218
    Super October 2018
    Chelsealeigh218 ·
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    Thank his siblings for growing up together? I feel like it would be more of a 'I'm so grateful that we had each other' kind of thing. I get it, i also kinda feel like i would make it more personal than announcing in front of everyone. Maybe a hand written note & small gift to show his gratitude?

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I think it's up to you. All my ceremonies address how grateful the couple is for everyone who has supported them over the years and who has traveled to be with them on the day.

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  • Z_Runner
    VIP June 2017
    Z_Runner ·
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    Following

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  • S&J
    Master August 2017
    S&J ·
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    My mother is blessing the food and doing the welcome, thank you for coming, etc. Then of course we will be making our way around to say a personal thank you to each person in the room.

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