I was told that it is etiquette to thank parents or list the hosts. My parents will be paying a large part of the wedding and my fiance’s mom and step dad will be contributing some also. His dad and step mom have not offered help. While I don’t expect anyone to PAY for my wedding, it would be nice to receive some kind of support. It doesn’t have to be financial. They’re usually in their own world. His parents are divorced, he has two half brothers (teens), so his dad is usually focused on them since my fiance and his sisters from the same mom are grown. They don’t have a bad relationship or anything like that.
Anyway, when the time comes, do I list the hosts or leave it out? Would it be embarrassing to lists hosts if his dad and step mom's name is not included? I of course would thank parents for helping and then thank them all for something like support and raising a wonderful person.