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Autumn
Beginner May 2009

thank you cards for early wedding gifts?

Autumn, on January 29, 2009 at 5:39 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 12

We are having a destination wedding in FL. Some guests have sent gifts already and the wedding is still not until May. Should I send out thank you cards now (I feel bad not acknowledging them)? We are wanting to do the wedding day photo of us on our thank you cards, but obviously the wedding hasn't happened yet so it's not possible just yet. Should buy regular thank you cards and send the wedding day photo cards only to attendents? Help!

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Latest activity by jcdowney, on June 8, 2014 at 3:17 AM
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    Devoted September 2009
    pianoNYK ·
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    Maybe you can send regular ones now and then send a shorter thank you (for attending) later on with the pictures you wanted to show them Smiley smile

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  • Pete Wuebker
    Pete Wuebker ·
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    With time on your side, I say send the thank yous and get them out of the way. A timely response is appreciated and there is less opportunity to loose track of them.

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  • Tracy
    Expert April 2009
    Tracy ·
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    You should send thank yous out after you receive a gift. definitely do not wait until after the wedding....

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  • Michelle Powell
    Michelle Powell ·
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    I agree....send the thank you cards as soon as you receive the gift. They're not going to care if it's a fancy thank you card with your picture, or just a regular thank you card. All that matters is that you say thanks.

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  • Allison
    Dedicated January 2009
    Allison ·
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    We did the same thing with the thank you cards so we had to wait until after the wedding to send all the thank yous. there's nothing wrong with waiting, what's the point of paying for wedding day photo thank you cards if you're just going to send a plain thank you before the wedding? really, you will get most of your gifts before the actual wedding day, most people have them shipped now days. i just had my mom spread the word that we were doing that for thank yous and wouldn't be sending them out until after the wedding. my mom verbally thanked anyone close to her for the gift letting them know we got it.

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  • Karen Guyt
    Karen Guyt ·
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    Absolutely! Most brides will tell you the looming list of thank you notes is a huge pressure. You do have a year post-wedding to get thank-you's out, but better to get ahead of the game! Send the picture later with another quick thanks.

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  • kailove7
    Beginner September 2009
    kailove7 ·
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    I would send a short hand written note now-- people often wonder if their gift was recieved. Then after the wedding when your pictures are printed, keep those people on the list, and send them an announcement or thank you with the picture inside. It never hurts to say thanks more than once! Smiley smile

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  • Mary McManus
    Mary McManus ·
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    As part of New World Greeting Cards, I create customized poems for thank you cards - something sweet and simple yet elegant and it takes the pressure off of you to decide what you want to write. You can check out my thank you cards portfolio at www.newworldgreetings.com. I work with clients using Vista Print to design the thank you's and then together we create a customized poem. Congratulations on your special day and please let me know if I can assist you with expressing your thanks.

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    Just Said Yes April 2009
    Samantha ·
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    You should send a thank you within two weeks of receiving the gift. This confirms to the sender you have received and appreciate the gift. It would also be nice to send a thank you after the wedding if they attend. If they do not you may consider sending the card with your wedding photo as a we missed seeing you there.

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  • Asile
    Beginner September 2010
    Asile ·
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    You definitely need to send a thank-you note as quickly as possible after receiving the gift. People took the time and effort to send something, and they want to know it was received safely and appreciate the acknowledgment.

    We are having a September wedding and are planning to include the small thank-you photos in our holiday cards a couple of months later, so everyone will still receive a photo.

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  • Kristin Wunderlich
    Kristin Wunderlich ·
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    I think people are just happy to get a thank you card at all. If you have a special thank you in mind, just don't forget about those who already sent gifts! It is required that you send thank you's within 6 months of the wedding... so sending them after the honeymoon for gifts now is more than appropriate!

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