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Thank you card etiquette

Jess, on July 24, 2020 at 4:55 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

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My husband and I just got married on Tuesday and while we're still having our big wedding next year, a few friends and co-workers got us gifts early. My co-workers threw me a surprise virtual bridal shower (they are so sweet ) and they all split the cost of an air fryer + 3 bottles of wine. Do I send each one of them a thank you note or just to the main person who planned it and she can share with the others? I've read online that you can write one note and place it in a central location for everyone to read, but since we are all remote right now, I can't really do that. Just wondering what to do!

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Latest activity by Sarah, on July 24, 2020 at 8:20 PM

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Melle · on July 24, 2020 at 4:59 PM
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Since there’s not a lot of them I think it would be nicer to get each of them a thank you card
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Nicole · on July 24, 2020 at 5:00 PM
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I would write a thank you note to each person individually.
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Jess · on July 24, 2020 at 5:00 PM
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There are actually. I'm on a team of 20 people haha.
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Jana · on July 24, 2020 at 5:04 PM
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Send out a thank you to everyone individually.

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Marcia · on July 24, 2020 at 5:05 PM
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Are virtual thank you cards a thing? If I werw a coworker, I'd appreciate an email (either individual or group)
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Melle · on July 24, 2020 at 5:09 PM
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I think that’s still ok to give to everyone. But like pp said if you do virtual that would be fine too !
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Judith · on July 24, 2020 at 5:18 PM
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Each should get a thank you. But remember that it is the personal, warm handwritten statement from you that matters. A nice paper stationery or plain blank notecard is always fine. You do not need to buy any expensive card, or order ones that say thank you, because you are going to write that.
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· on July 24, 2020 at 8:16 PM
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I'd send a handwritten note to the people who actually organized/planned the event. Sending physical notes to the others would be nice, but I think a personalized email to each of the others is probably okay for this.
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Sarah · on July 24, 2020 at 8:20 PM
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My shower was supposed to be in March but the. Covid. So my team at work had gone in on a gift. I would have typically done one thank you note for all of them but bc we are teachers and home for summer, I wrote each their own thank you note.
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