I was wondering if this would be a tacky or reasonable solution to a possible problem. I am not wearing the traditional white or ivory for the wedding reception. I have opted for a champagne or gold colored dress.
My mom pointed out that guests don't typically wear white or ivory because that's what the bride will be in and that a guest or 5 could show up in gold or with gold embellished clothing on.
Would politely stating on our wedding website that I've decided to wear the non-traditional color of gold and asking guests to please refrain from wearing that color to the reception be a "bridezilla" move or is it acceptable if worded similar to how I wrote it here? I don't want to look bossy or rude but I don't want to have ten other ladies in gold too. What can you guys recommend?