My finance is 43. In his younger days his other friends married and he... joined in the fun making the getaway car look tacky. I don't mean silly, I mean like condoms and.... such. I am totally against this. But he can't bring himself to tell them to tone it down bc he said he will feel bad bc he didd it to them in the past. Anyone having similar issue or know of a decent way to handle this. I don't want my 4 yo daughter to see all of that, nor my friends children and little cousins. And honestly I don't want to see it either.