Surprise Pregnancy Four Months Before Wedding

Our wedding is nearly fully planned and booked for the end of June and I just found out I’m pregnant a week ago after a missed period. Was fearful this would happen but am trying to be positive! Anyone have some words of support or advice?


I literally just got my dream dress fitted and it’s mermaid style/tight so I obviously need a new dress, which is a bummer. Other than that, I don’t envision this changing much of our plans. I’m in recovery and don’t drink anyway so not worried about missing out on alcohol during my wedding or honeymoon. However, I’m worried I’ll look very pregnant in photos, which is really not what I want. We’re having a micro destination wedding with 18 close friends and family who have already booked flights, etc. so we’re too far in to cancel or postpone.
We’re 30 and 34 and have lived together for 3+ years so it’s not like a kid is far fetched (and we would try to conceive in a few years anyway), but I hate the idea that people may think we got married just because of the pregnancy. Just struggling with the surprise and letting go of how I envisioned the wedding weekend to go, I suppose.