Sure Just invite yourself....

LOL!! Now that is extreme...I have had people just assume they are invited and say things like "let me know when the wedding is", and in my mind im like "why??" LoL---but I have called off my wedding so many times that they hardly take me serious and when I finally tell them its on, im stressing we are doing 75 guests--so im hoping a decent person would just hope for an invite and not call me to ask me for one. LOL

Good lord! That is just downright rude, and I don't blame you for your inner b**ch wanting to come out, mine would too! I'd say talk to your cousin first and make sure it's clear that she does not get a plus 1. Then be very firm with this girl in telling her that she is not invited.

It's situations like these that call for your inner bitch to come out!

Yeah kind of but a little different.

I had a best friend growing up. From Kindergarten to 12th grade. we'd started growing apart before HS actually ended. We were just very different. When we were young, it was great. Went to the mall, skating rink on the weekends, and boys were just playthings lol. Our friendship was more important than boys. Then as we got older, She got into drugs and was having sex with every guy in school. I stayed her friend as long as I could but then went off to college and we never spoke again.

Six years later, have not seen her face once. I'm engaged. She works at the convience store/gas station down the road. My mom saw her and mentioned I was getting married.

She told my mom she would be happy be a bridesmaid. My mom said no, I already had my BMS picked out. Then she said, 'Well, then I at least have to be invited"

What? I have not seen her in 6 years! I do not want her at my wedding! she's never eeven met my FH.

I talked to my cousin as soon as I read the facebook post...like why does this girl think shes invited to my wedding. and we had talked about the no plus ones unless its a serious relationship on numerous occasions so she was clear on that. She even said IDK why she thinks shes invited. I told my cousin its her job to tell this girl shes not invited...because I wont be nice about it...WHo does that seriously...I mean i have met this girl but its not like I would even consider her a friend of mine...i saw her only when Kelsey brought her around...SHEESh....Im not posting any details about wedding on facebook this chick might Eff around and show up!

And @ miss tattoo you are so right...my Inner B!@ch is not a nice person though so im gonna let my cousin try to tell her and if it persists...the wrath of Jess will ensue!

@jaclyn atleast it was someone that was your friend at some point this broad isnt even a friend or former Friend...shes just someone I have met and hung out with by default because she was with my cousin....

Girl let your inner B*^@# out! I have a girl who post msg on my wall and FH wall about coming to the wedding. She told him to tell me she hasn't received her invite yet. And on my wall keeps asking when the wedding is. She's so not invited to the wedding.

I'd be Damned if I asked someone for an invite to the wedding, well she didn't really ask she told me she needed one...I am trying to laugh about it, but seriously!

Id just message her back saying "you're not invited". satisfies the inner bitch but isnt a huge rant to make it over the top. she cant argue with that. and even if she did i wouldnt send a message back. just leave it as you are not invited!

If you talked to your cousin and she said that person isn't supposed to come....

Don't respond...act like FB had a glitch and you never got it...lol

Oh no she didn't! Wow, the nerve of some people! Just reply and say, sorry, we are keeping our wedding small and intimate and only inviting close friends. And thank her for her interest! haha

I would totally let it out. I think that is rude as ever. I would go on there and be like "uhm... Who are you?? Not invited. That's who" but thats me being really mean lol

Must be a jess thing because thats what i wanted to say HAHA....Im really blunt which comes off as bitchy but oh well...ill let my cousin talk to her and if it comes up again then she can experience my evil twin!

Here is a response if she's bold enough to ask again.

Thank you for your recent inquiry to attend our wedding. At this time we have already filled our guest list with people we actually want to be in attendance.

lol

My inner bish has taken a permanent spot at being the OUTWARD bish. It was kind of hard at first to be so blunt, but now I'll never go back. Some people need a reality check. I'm not saying you have to be extremely rude but this girl does sound like she deserves a few choice words.

Lol Def a Jess thing. Im very blunt and to the point when I get irritated or dont like someone.

WoW! that is upsetting. I can't believe this person had the nerve to do that. I would let my cousin take care of it but if all fails and that person sends a second message I'd let the inner bish come out! I've had people ask if they are invited but you're right that takes the cake.

Lmao@ future Mrs. P...im sending that to her now!

That is just crazy. I would never never invite myself to wedding like that. I am shocked. I would go on and tell her she is not invited and be done with it.

It seems to be happening alot. I had my FBIL girlfriend 1st time every meeting me, she said "I have been trying to figure out what part I will play in your wedding" I'm like really? she said yes, do u have all ur braidsmaid? So I say wait a minute I have something for you to do! she said what? I said come and have a SEAT she gave me this look i then told her it was inpolite to invite yourself to be a part of someone's wedding. She now thinks something is WRONG with ME!!!! WOW thats 2 funny.