So I have read a few forums here and everyone seems to be very helpful so before my anxiety gets the better of me I thought this would be the best place to get some advice.
Only close family and 2 friends know we are going to get married this year, April 22 to be precise. We are just waiting for my ring to be sized and then we will make the big announcement. So this brings me to my conundrum. Has anyone had to deal with questions like, oh are you pregnant? Why so quick? Don't you want a big wedding? And how do you think it is best to respond to things like this. I have seen friends of ours go threw this and it was very hard on the bride because she got a lot of backlash, whispers, and questions. I am just not sure how to respond without sounding like..... well a b***h. The truth is we are having such a short engagement so that my soon to be husband can be on my health insurance since he hasn't had insurance in 6 years. We have been together 6 years (9 if you count the 3 years we where together in high school) and we have been friends for 20 years so it's not like this is quick to us. It has been the plan to get married ever since we have been back together 6 years ago. We are also not doing a normal wedding we are just going to have the immediate family and our 1 friend who will be our officiant out to dinner and small private ceremony at my in-laws. Later after we move into our house (we are closing in March) and get settled we are going to have a full reception/ "I do BBQ" but April 22 will just be family. I am just not sure how to respond to the questions and comments that are going to come up in about a week when we announce everything. Any suggestions or experiences would be great to hear.
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