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Erika
Devoted August 2018

Summer Wedding....In Virginia (Guest Attire)

Erika, on November 17, 2016 at 3:35 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 13

Hi everyone! I am trying to figure out ideas for my guests attire at a summer wedding. I do not want everyone in formal attire, as the ceremony is outdoors and they will be dying...

I was thinking, ladies- nice sundresses, men- khakis/polo or short sleeve button up (NO HAWAIIAN SHIRTS, LOL!)

For some perspective, the wedding party will still be somewhat fancy. Not black tie by any means, but my bridesmaids will be wearing nice dresses and the men are wearing khaki suits. With that said, I do not want the guest's attire to be too far off to where it doesn't look like it "flows"...I hope that makes sense.

Any ideas? And ideas on how to phrase it on the invitations?

13 Comments

Latest activity by AlwaysMs., on November 17, 2016 at 6:29 PM
  • Flying
    Master May 2017
    Flying ·
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    You don't tell adults how to dress. They will figure it out.

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  • Anne
    Master April 2017
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    I don't think you need to have a dress code on the invitation. if it is outside the guests will know to dress accordingly. You could use word of mouth to spread the information if you want people to know that they are free to dress semi casually.

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
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    Why are you trying to dress your guests?

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
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    You need to rethink this plan.

    Whats your location? Time of day? Is it shaded? etc.

    Outdoors in Virginia during the summer is **awful**. Humidity is often 100% and the temperatures can be 100 plus. I have had people from Arizona tell me in all seriousness that our summers are worse than theirs'.

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  • Erika
    Devoted August 2018
    Erika ·
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    Odd, as almost every wedding I have been to has a dress code.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    Your guests should be able to guess from the formality level of your invitations and venue, but you could always add "casual attire" to your website or let people know when they ask you individually that casual attire is welcome and that guys don't need to wear a tie or jacket!

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  • Mrs.KatieK
    Master September 2016
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    Set the tone with the formality of your invitations. Some may ask (it happened for my wedding), but that's the only time you should tell them what to wear.

    ETA: Some wedding websites have an area where you can address the formality of your wedding.

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  • Van Pear
    VIP January 2017
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    I guess you can put "semi-formal" or "smart casual." But I don't think you have to worry about it; they'll feel the weather there and judge it themselves.

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  • Erika
    Devoted August 2018
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    Well thank you for the education! I am clearly thinking too much into this. But thank you KatieK, WWLynnie, OG Alecia, and Punkin Beer for providing insight as to why I should not approach it like that. It is greatly appreciated!

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  • Erika
    Devoted August 2018
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    And Van Pear Smiley smile

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  • Celia Milton
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    You provide a comfortable environment, let your guests know that it's going to be outside (word of mouth and on your website, which most people will not visit....) and let them make the call.

    You can't have a dress code......and FSS don't put it on the invite.

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  • Erika
    Devoted August 2018
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    Got it! Thank you everyone! This saved me from making a huge mistake.

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  • AlwaysMs.
    VIP May 2018
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    Punkin Beer had an excellent point about the ceremony that you might want to give some serious thought to.

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