I'm sorry for the long post but I kind of used this as a min vent session.
Recently my FH and I have had issues with people we just recently met (within the last 3-4 months) assuming they are invited to our wedding, or they are are trying to invite themselves to the wedding. I'm trying to be as nice as possible and when this happens I tell them that we unfortunately have already created our guest list and finalized our number of guests based on our venue's capacity. One of the first things my FH and I did when we got engaged was make our guest list. We had that done before anything else (besides picking our date). Those we have told this to after they ask are very understanding, but there is this one who mentions coming to the wedding every time I see her (which is twice a week as she is in the same bowling leagues as my FH but not on the same teams). Last week she asked me what color dress she should wear to the wedding because she doesn't want to match the bridesmaids. At this point I do my best to avoid her because I don't know what else to say to her. I don't feel like I know her well enough to have her at our wedding and I also feel like I have been as nice to her as possible telling her we are at the capacity for our venue. Honestly, at this point she's been so annoying that even if we had room to invite her, I wouldn't. My FH told me he's had it with her and offered to tell her himself but I don't want it to come off a being mean, but I feel at this point we might have to get a little rude with her for her to understand.
Thoughts?
