Hello ladies. I need suggestions on how to handle this situation. So I had one bridesmaid who was really insecure about the dress I chose due to the fact that she doesn’t like showing arms. I said great no worries I’ll purchase Shawls for all my bridesmaids to wear. She was happy. Then the dress came in, and apparently it’s too small, and won’t close. So I said okay will you be exchanging for another size? She said “no I think it will be to much hassle”, “ I feel like I’m going to be super uncomfortable”. Then I said okay well what are you going to do? She said “idk... etc.” basically I ended up asking if she was still going to be my bridesmaid. She basically said no. All I’m asking is if there’s any suggestions around this situation. I really want her to be a bridesmaid. I already went from having 7 bridesmaids to 5 to now 4 without her. I already bought all my bridesmaids gifts, accommodated to her insecurities of her arms. ( all bridesmaids are wearing the same dress so letting her chose something else isn’t the route I want to go) the dress is beautiful, and flowy so it won’t show too much curves if she was afraid of that. I’m
Just already already perturbed that I already had other bridesmaids back out, and now her. Don’t think I don’t understand about her insecurities, but I think it just didn’t fit right because she ordered the wrong size. I feel like all she would need is a size up.
(Here’s a picture of the dress , on another bridesmaid)
