I just need to rant to other brides who might understand this... any positive outlooks would be helpful 
So, we're doing a Thanksgiving wedding to bring our family together and we're keeping it small, no issues there. My fiance and I don't have many friends so we don't have a long guest list.
But to get to the thick of it, I have one bridesmaid/moh... there is no one else in my wedding party. I have very few friends, and the few that I have are like family to me, but when I told them about the wedding they just told me to ask the younger sis to be the moh. I used to be close to her, but we drifted apart, and when we were close and talked about weddings, she countered everything I wanted as if I didn't know what I wanted.
My friend however, maintained that I should ask her sister, and won't be in the wedding party. My MOH at this point is willing to do this to help me, and not focus on other family in it. It hurts that the only other female friends I have nearby refuse it... and it leaves me with literally my moh... a friend in Scotland might try to come out, but she doesn't know if she can or not. The lack of having a wedding party is so nerve racking for me, cause I don't know what to really do.
Also, my MOH is trans (guy to girl) but I'm worried over my mom insulting her, as my mom is old school religious. She also hates my adopted family (if they show up). My MOH already said she doesn't care and will ignore my mom, but it'll annoy me watching her be a horrible person to a good friend of mine.
In a much smaller annoyance/pet-peeve, I'm a planner, I plan things out thoroughly when possible. My mom-n-law is gonna help us pay for the wedding and ATM doesn't know what the budget is. I'm not worried about it, really, where the minor frustration comes in is that as a planner, I wanna know how much I have to work with money wise for things we might need. That one is more a much more minor thing than the rest, its just a small thing that bugs me.
Wedding stress rant over... Thanks for reading
