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Kelly
Devoted April 2021

Stresses have yet to just stop!

Kelly, on August 2, 2020 at 8:18 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 7
Hey guys i know all ive been doing lately on here is ranting but tbh my life is a mess. I am so stressed out!!! In December i was in a bad car accident and its amazing im still alive. Since then i have had to see a multitude of doctors and have many tests and procedures and surgeries done. On Thursday i was discussing with my surgeon that the surgery he performed 6 months ago doesn’t seem to be helping and in fact i feel worse. I told him the procedures on my neck have also not helped. He then informed me i need to do additional testing which was so painful the first time around , and will probably need a second more in depth surgery on my arm and that i am running out of options for my neck and will probably need spine surgery. This is crazy to me its so crazy ! 😭 i began worrying and debating, if i have the surgeries will i be healed and well enough to enjoy my wedding day( which is april but the healing times are long)


Today my bridesmaid informed me she just found out she is pregnant and her due date.. is my wedding date...
Im sad and anxious and freaking out

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Latest activity by Kelly, on August 4, 2020 at 10:54 AM
  • Annika
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    I'm so sorry you have had a rough time lately! This year has been very sucky for everyone! I have been in 3 motor vehicle (2 car 1 ATV) accidents and I understand how stressful they can be. Hugs!! As for your wedding day, maybe you could find someone to help you plan so you can take a load off? Not necessarily a planner since that's expensive but maybe a friend who isn't in your wedding party that can help with vendors and going out to buy stuff so you can stay home and rest? I don't know your exact situation, but having someone else take care of one stressful item on your list could help! Thankfully you still have 9 months to go which is a lot of time to plan and more importantly focus on your health! Good luck and stay strong you got this! Smiley heart

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  • Kelly
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    Thank you ❤️
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  • Annika
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    Smiley heart Smiley heart Smiley heart No problem! Good luck!

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  • Lynnie
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    I'm so sorry Kelly! That's a lot to deal with!! Thinking of you and hoping for better news after more testing! Smiley heart


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  • Marcia
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    I'm so sorry to hear all of this. Will be sending prayers. Its the worst when things completely out of our control complicate our plans. I agree with PP that you should look to your support system for help, and definitely get a planner if you can afford one. Luckily you have some time for the image to become clearer on your health. Would you ever consider a back-up plan to postpone the reception but keep the ceremony? Seems like lots of people on here are doing that
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  • Kelly
    Devoted April 2021
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    I attempted to discuss that with my fh, but he seemed so heart broken when i brought it up yesterday. And before i mentioned it weeks ago and he was like absolutely not! But i think he might be realizing where i am coming from slowly, between the non stop dr appointments and more surgeries being needed, the failing relationships between my family and i and my best friends unexpected baby news, and covid i think he is finally making things click in his heaf a little instead if thinking im just being a jerk and like not wanting to marry anymore.
    Im doing a lot of debating as well as making sure i get every single question answered when i visit the surgeons to see how things would potentially go. Still unsure about my friend and her pregnancy, she just picked up her gown too, its just so shocking that her due date falls exactly on my wedding date lol i have too much on my plate half of which isn’t bc even mentioned here lol... im just tryna breathe at this point lol
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  • Kelly
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    ❤️ your ghost hug is definitely appreciated!!! I think I actually feel it! Haha 🤗 thank you, this made me smile I needed that
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