Stressed

Breathe ! wedding planning can get super overwhelming so be sure to take a break and practice self care

It's okay. Your feelings are very normal. I had a mini meltdown this weekend as well. Being logical I think we as women put a lot of emphasis on this one a day that we wanted to be Flawless but you know what most Brides on here that post pictures of their wedding day they all say the same thing. The day is going to go by super fast and to not stress the small stuff. I know it's easier said than done but that's sometimes what we as brides me to do is remember that it's just one day and it's going to go by super fast and the best part is enjoying married life with our loved ones.

This is 100% completely normal. I cannot tell you how many times I have had meltdown and crying sessions over things having to do with the wedding. I tried my best to hide my stress from my FH but it didn't work; he can read me like a book and knows when something is wrong lol. During my last meltdown he sat me down and told me something that I think might help you.

He told me to stop worrying about pleasing everyone else. Our guests are not paying for the wedding. It is not their wedding. It's our wedding. We should do what we want for our wedding. Nothing is necessary. We don't need centerpieces, favors, specific napkins or silverware. If the "ToGo" boxes aren't monogrammed for the dessert bar it's not the end of the world. The fact that my brother's wife backed out of the wedding in December isn't a big deal. The day is about us and what we want to do. It's about us. We invited our guests to share the day with us but in no way do things have to be perfect. He also told me to prepare myself for something to go wrong that we cannot fix, and he told me when something does go wrong that it's not a big deal. It will/could be something that will make for a great story when we tell our kids about our wedding day. He told me that as long as we end up married on February 29th, we shouldn't care what happens or how it happens.