Y'all my wedding is this coming weekend and I am ready to drop one of my bridesmaids! Before you get judgy please hear me out, she has not made any attempt to take part in anything this far. Didn't help while we picked out dresses, didn't show up to my bridal shower and didn't make it out for my bachelorette party. Everytime I text my bridesmaids in our group text she is always the one who does not respond and I've just had enough. So she is my cousin and when I asked her to stand up it was two years ago, well now she is in school and uses that as an excuse for everything. Please don't get me wrong I have been super relaxed about almost every part of my wedding and understand that everyone has their own life but I just feel like if I were important to you that you would show some interest somehow or someway. Am I wrong here? Another thing the oy request I made to my girls was to wear their up on Saturday in some type of updo and have paid a team of girls to do makeup and hair for every bridesmaid, and she is flat out refusing. What do I do?