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Futuremrs
Devoted July 2019

Stress

Futuremrs, on May 1, 2019 at 6:58 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 4
So my FFIL is in the ICU with interstitial lung disease (ie they don't quite know what's wrong) two hours away from us. My mom found out that she doesn't have a job after June 30. My future daughter is 8 going on 17 with the attitude to match (She may be going through early puberty). My bank accounts are pretty much empty, but I can't get a job since I'm a caregiver for my mom and future daughter. My monthly cycle is giving me trouble. And my FH wonders why I wish day drinking was socially acceptable. Oh, right, and I'm planning a wedding by myself with essentially 3 "receptions." Can't imagine why I'm stressed. I'm just venting. There isn't anything to be done right now to make any of this different. Soon, I hope though.

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Latest activity by Mandi, on May 1, 2019 at 9:39 PM
  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
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    Did you put money down on anything yet? If not, I recommend you consider a more frugal route (courthouse wedding, elopement, etc.)
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  • Futuremrs
    Devoted July 2019
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    Our ceremony is in my mom's backyard with 5 guests and 3 BP. Apps, cake, champagne, and pictures. Then we all go to dinner. The one reception is also in a backyard. The third, the biggest "reception," we have paid in full. That one we're having catered, but we can't get the caterer to call us back. FH's cousin, who does catering with 2 restaurants. It will all be beautiful and I'm sure we'll love it all. Just feeling stressed.
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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
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    Make sure you take care of you too! Sorry you're so stressed, sometimes you just need to vent and let it all out, I get it.

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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
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    Wait, day drinking isn't ok? Uh oh. My life is a lie.
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