Stress

I guess because there's a lot to plan or do and it all costs a lot. Take one thing at a time

Other people make it stressful with their unsolicited advice and unwanted planning. My experience was interesting. I had one person trying to figure out how to get my 💵 in their pocket. Another RSVP’d ✍️ that she was bringing 2 additional people to my event.

I finally had to adopt an “input costs 💵” standard line. Once I did that, it became a LOT easier. Folks gave opinions, but no funds to back them up.

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Congratulations and 🍀‼️

Girl! I've had people tell me that I dont "look happy" and that person when further by suggesting I'm on drugs because of I looked. Which at the time was stressed about work and deadlines and also having to try to figure a budget for the wedding and trying to compromise on what we want and need and what we can afford.

Because somehow we have put all this pressure on the picture perfect wedding day when we all know the real goal is a real, supportive marriage. Try to remember that you're basically planning a big party. Not everyone is going to see your vision, but that vision is meant for you and your FS. I am no expert and actually just had an anxiety attack yesterday over the final details, but my FW and I sat down last night and checked a few more things off the list. I made a few more lists to get what's been floating in my head on paper and it actually helped. Good luck and don't forget to reach out when you need to.

Thank you Ladies so much . I feel so alone in this and its getting frustrating cause we are getting married next year and I just want everything to go smooth .