Stress, cold feet or just a change of heart.

It could be any number of factors, but I'd guess it's just pre-wedding jitters and stress. Are you two talking the next day and getting your troubles, worries, concerns out into the open? If you can't communicate then I'd be a little more concerned. But I do find that as long as you can be open and honest without purposely hurting each other it will work out.

I'm so very sorry. It sounds like you need to take a break from wedding planning because the stress of planning seems to be taking a toll on your relationship. I wouldn't talk with your fiance about wedding planning for at least two weeks and see how everything goes. Wedding planning is very stressful, but it can't be all that you think about, do or discuss.

I was going to do an all DIY (down to the food prepared by me and my mom) wedding, but I decided that the stress would be detrimental to the health of my relationship and myself in general xD So now we're doing an all-inclusive venue, where all I need to do is book a photographer once we get our date 100% secured. Stress can definitely cause strain in your relationship. Try to take a day and breathe, and just be together, no wedding talk at all, see how it feels.

I would take a week off from wedding planning and take each other on a few dates to remind yourself what you are doing this all for.

I agree with Molly. Take a week or so off of planning. It can be very stressful, and that on top of a world wide pandemic can be a lot for a couple to handle. I would talk with one another about what the issues are and and try to work through them. Maybe a wedding break and spending more romantic time together will help.

I also agree with Molly. Sometimes it is just all too much, and you deserve a break. I know it helped with my FH and I. We were the same way and basically at each other's throats from stress. But after taking a break from everything planning wise and going out for dinner and just spending some time together talking helped so much. I was able to vent about things that were stressing me out and him as well. It was so much needed and I felt so much better about everything afterwards. I hope this helps girl, you got this!!

OMG me too. MY FH and I are best friends and love each other very much but life has been SO STRESSFUL lately with the pandemic, him being furloughed and just now getting a new job at my work, me being an essential worker this whole time, me thinking about going back to college....ugh so many things. We both need some help individually and as a couple and I hope we can get started on some therapy soon. I've been having "should we get married" thoughts too, but I know they are just anxiety and depression thoughts, not my true feelings.