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2BRIDES2015
Expert March 2015

stop CRYING..get the d**n vows out!

2BRIDES2015, on January 16, 2015 at 9:31 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 22

We are writing our vows and I can't help but think will I be too full of tears to even get the damn words out???? Perhaps I should just keep it short and sweet but I don't want FW to be like THAT"S IT lol.... What are yall doing? Are you saying a lot ? Were you able to get out the words without crying? I'm such a big baby!!!


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Latest activity by Northern MN, on January 16, 2015 at 12:00 PM
  • MrsPope
    Master September 2015
    MrsPope ·
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    Bhahahahahaha!!! I'm going to be a mess!!


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  • 2BRIDES2015
    Expert March 2015
    2BRIDES2015 ·
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    Yes I definitely will be in the same boat especially once I see my grandmother sitting upfront

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  • L + R
    Master September 2014
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    Mine were two note cards long. I cried, but in that moment I was able to hold back my tears until I finished. Then DH started his and I blubbered.

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  • Sarahdell
    Master October 2014
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    DH and I wrote our vows and memorized then. I did cry through them but I wouldn't change a thing Smiley smile

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1buzrJcIlo8

    See 1:22.

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  • Susan
    Master March 2015
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    I cried during ours in hospital. As a matter of fact I cried the entire time, all it took was seeing Dad laying there in the bed. I make all sorts of funny faces in the video trying not to cry. 9/13 or so people were crying, including the minister. LOL

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  • Mrs.T
    VIP February 2015
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    Same here. Read through the ceremony script yest and was pretty much bawling. Im hoping the excitement of the day will level me out a bit!

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  • 2BRIDES2015
    Expert March 2015
    2BRIDES2015 ·
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    Aww Sarahdell you tried to fight them lol I thought it was super cute when your hubby reached for the hankkyy

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  • Sarahdell
    Master October 2014
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    @2Brides2015 - Crying is OK Smiley smile

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  • Mrs. F-u-...
    Master December 2014
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    I wondered if I was going to cry, but ended up laughing during the ceremony. The vows didn't make me tear up like I thought they might. I think I was too worried about remembering what to say, lol.

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  • Lucy
    Master April 2015
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    Ugh, I just know I'm going to be a mess

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  • Enya
    VIP July 2015
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    I totally started writing the vows this morning in the shower. it will be a miracle if i don't both laugh and cry. hopefully not at the same time

    ... i ugly cry. ugh.

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  • Finally Mrs Gee
    Master April 2015
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    I know I'll cry during mine!

    Saradell- your video was beautiful! I got teary eyed

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  • Mrs Ronco
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    I know i'm going to cry. I already cry thinking about how close it is getting.

    ...I ugly cry.

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  • Mrs. Hunnibear
    Master October 2015
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    LOL I loved the title of this thread! Yeah we are not writing our own just because of that. Hell I'll be lucky if I make it down the isle with out bawling lol thank god for waterproof make up!!

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  • Staci
    Master September 2014
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    Read them out loud so you know which lines will get to you. Practice a few times and you'll be less emotional. Its okay to cry as long as people can still understand you!

    Also, bring a tissue. I had a snot situation going on due to the crying.

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  • McKony
    VIP April 2015
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    I can't even read mine right now without crying. I can not believe this is what I have become.

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  • McKony
    VIP April 2015
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    In fact, we changed our entire photography schedule around because I am a little girl.

    We changed our photo shoot to before the ceremony just last month, b/c I realized I am going to look like Courtney Love by the time we kiss.

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  • Elyse
    Master September 2015
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    I plan on taking Staci's advice and practicing a lot before but FH writes so much better than me so I know I will lose it when he says his.

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  • L + A
    VIP May 2015
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    There's a reason for doing the first look. Both FH and I are going to lose our shit, we don't want to add fuel to the fire by having it be the first time we see each other that day lol.

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  • E
    Master July 2015
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    I'm sure I'm going to have the Kim K face

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