Hey ladies I need some help...My fiance and I are getting married September 28th!!!! Our familys alonge with our wedding party want to help us out with the wedding $$$ wise...we love our family and friends but hate the idea of them giving us money for the wedding, plus my parents are paying for most and my fiance and I are coving some cost, and I won the wedding venue, two tuxedo rentals, and a wedding planner. Anyway my Maid of Honor had the idea of soing a stock the bar party???? I have never been to one but they are pretty bing in texas...instead of a traditional shower you do a couples shower where the guest bring bottles of liqour to hlep stock the wedding bar. The guest are moslty going to be family and close friends...do you think this is a good way for them to help without giving us money?? I am just on the fence about the idea