Still curious.... taking a poll!!

For me personally it would depend on the numbers of COVID. If things continue to rise I personally wouldn't feel comfortable because I have a 2 year old at home. If the numbers were declining I would probably feel more comfortable.

I wouldn't be willing to make a decision until closer to and, unless things significantly improve in the meantime, I would not attend.

This is just my opinion, but if things are relatively the same as they are now, we would decline an invitation to any social event for the time being. I was thinking about it this morning and, honestly, the only wedding I'd attend now would be our daughter's (if she weren't already married) and I'd expect it to be an elopement. I'm so sorry. I read several articles yesterday that the midwest is predicted to be the next "hotspot". I hope that isn't true, as we have lots of family and friends there, but having lived in a hotspot for the last 6-8 weeks and with social events being considered some of the riskiest activities right now, the answer would have to be "no." Good luck.

We're having our wedding on 10/10 in the FL Keys just south of their Hotspot and all our guests are attending. So, yes, I would feel comfortable attending.

I know you will have declines, but based on conditions right now, 150 people would be way too many for my comfort level. I would probably only be comfortable attending events less than 50 people right now, as long as there was plenty of room to spread out, and even in that scenario I would have no problem leaving if I felt like guests weren't practicing appropriate social distancing.

For me it would depend on the numbers in that area as well as how close myself/fh are to the bride/groom. I think it would also depend on travel options. I don't know how I would feel about flying, but if I was close enough to drive, definitely. Would there be a possibility to move the ceremony outside to allow for optimal social distancing throughout the whole evening?

I Would Attend

No, I would not feel comfortable. All the sanitizer in the world won't stop airborne droplets and human error with mask use is too great a risk in a gathering that large.

As long as all the precautions are being done (masks, hand sanitizer, social distancing), then yes I would go.

I wouldn't go.

We are also in the midwest and having an indoor micro wedding and outdoor micro reception in October (12 people) - with plans for a big celebration next year God willing. We have already made it clear that we do not expect anyone to attend if they do not want to. I'm honestly really worried about this TINY event bc I'm sure they will all choose to attend (these are our siblings, parents, etc.). Honestly unless it was immediate family I would decline an invitation for the foreseeable future. This just sucks soooo bad.

We're having our wedding in Texas on 10/10. We're moving forward as planned with our 250 invites. I foresee an increase in the number of declines but with everything scheduled and paid for, we aren't going to postpone. Our mentality is "if you can come, great! If you can't, that's okay too!"