I am trying to make a list of posed photos we want for the day. My step-siblings and I are not very close (parents married when we were all adults & out of the house). Should they be included? One of my step-sisters just got married and we were not included, but they were also very disappointed with their photos and photographer and were not organized at all beforehand. Would it be rude to have one set of photos with them and one without? Thanks for any advice you can provide!