I was looking into getting the silk robes from wedding prep gals to take pictures in while getting dressed. I was only getting one for me, FH's mother, and my step mother. Problem is the regular ones say Mother of the Bride or Mother of the Groom which is fine for the groom but my mother passed away 2 years ago and its been hard planning a wedding without her. My step mother has really stepped up and been there but I don't want to negate the memory of my mother by giving my stepmother a robe that say "Mother of the bride". I was thinking about putting Step-Mother of the bride but didn't know if she would feel some type of way because of how it sounds i guess. I haven't asked her because I wanted it to be apart of the gifts I give them the night before at the rehearsal dinner. Do you guys have any suggestions on how I should word it or what I should do? Have you had to make decisions on things like this before? How did you handle it? Thanks in advance.