Starting Over with Me 😍😍

Stay strong, girl! So proud you had the great courage to end something that didn't feel right. With or without a man, you are already complete

View Quoted Comment I’ve been complete and didn’t even know it. I’ve been depressed for so long not realizing it was him and my ex causing me to doubt myself as a woman and mother. They both put on a good show in the beginning but unfortunately for my ex fiancé I caught on faster this time.

I’m so proud of you for recognizing a repeating pattern & breaking it!! 🤗

Oh wow... it’s better now than later!!! Stay strong and positive!!! The one is out there!!!

I'm sorry you had to go through that but like you said, at least you caught on sooner than later. Never let someone tell you or make you feel any less than the greatness that you are. I'm happy that you found yourself again though. I know that road all too well. I wish you nothing but love and fulfillment.

View Quoted Comment The one is me. After these 2 crappy partners I honestly never want to date again. I don’t want a man in my life. I’ve been arguing for 6.5 years with men and I’m tired. So tired. I’d rather argue with my 2 year old about her PJ Mask episodes or listen to my 6 and 4 year old bicker before I’d ever want to deal with arguing with another man.

Be strong, for yourself and your kids. Things may or may not be different down the road. Recognizing that you can be self sufficient, and neither need or want anyone's garbage smothering you, is a hard thing. But an all important one. I'm sorry for the temporary heartache, hopes for something different dying. But there is a strength and liberation in what you are doing. It may be that after a period of years of not being beaten down, your strength will be appealing to a different kind of person, someone truly kind and loving. But you are doing the right thing to get off this path now, and I wish you the best.

You're so brave! Good for you. Sorry you had to go through all that but I can't imagine the strength it took for you to put yourself first.

Congratulations on making the best decision for yourself and your kids! That really sucks, but you said it best - you're a complete package and you are the one for you. Wishing you every bit of happiness and peace! It sounds like you really deserve it.

I'm going to say congrats on your decision. No one deserves to be in an unhealthy relationship and it takes a lot of strength to realize that and to get out of a bad situation. Take time out for your kids and most importantly yourself.

Good for you and your kids. I'm sorry to hear the relationship is over but happy that you came to the core of it all before entering the marriage. You be you!

Congratulations 🎉🎊 on finding yourself. Enjoy your children and enjoy yourself . Best wishes to you.

Good for you girl. And even better that you’re showing your kids that it’s not okay to be treated badly by anybody. So happy for you 👏🏼

Congrats on breaking the cycle!!! It's a really hard thing to do. I had 3 toxic relationships back to back and the third was the worst (mentally and emotionally abusive). I took a 6 year timeout from all dating and became strong and independent again after having been so broken down. So I was in a really great place when I met my incredible FH who is the complete opposite of my exes. He builds me up and brings out the best in me. I hope you get everything you want from your life. I also hope that as time goes on and you heal from these 2 men, you leave yourself open for the possibility of someone else. I'm not saying to go looking. (I wasn't looking. I met my FH at work.) But if someone crosses your path in the future, after you've healed, maybe don't shut him out. He could be amazing.

Good luck in your incredible future. You've got this!

Good for you!! Recognizing and breaking a pattern can be so difficult and takes a lot of courage to do it! Focus on you and your kids and be happy!!

SO glad you figured it out before the wedding. Stay strong! The personbyour ment to be with will treat you with amazing respect. Don't settle for anything less!!

View Quoted Comment Awwww🙈 im sorry!! Time for you!!! Love it!! Have lots of fun

Congratulations on making the best choice for yourself!

You've grown wise. A wise woman is a force to be reckoned with. A time may come when you will be ready for adult companionship and romance in your life again. When it does, you will be a take-no-bullsh*t woman who knows what she wants and what she requires from a man who wants you in his life. When you are real with yourself and willing to walk away from any man who isn't truly what you want, the right man will recognize the treasure you are and will jump through hoops of fire to make you happy. The best is yet to come. You know you can be happy on your own, so you won't accept a man who is less than awesome.

Happy for you! Stay strong you can do this!