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Kristen
Dedicated January 2015

Start time for ceremony - which one should I choose?

Kristen, on August 5, 2014 at 11:49 AM Posted in Planning 0 14

We're getting married on Jan 3 on the beach in Fort Myers. The sunset is projected to be at 5:48. My photographer suggests the ceremony start at 4:15 so there is a full hour (4:45-5:45) for pics after the ceremony in the best lighting before sunset.

My wedding planner assigned to me by the resort we are getting married at suggested a ceremony start time of 4:30. She feels it is an easier time for guests to remember. And she said that if we shift it forward to 4:15 it would mean guests would be moved inside from the cocktail reception (on the terrace) to be seated for dinner before the sunset is finished. So the guests would miss the sunset ...or if people wanted to stay to watch it, the dinner schedule would be thrown off. It is stressing me out that the planner and the photographer are giving me two different recommendations and I dont which to choose!!

I am leaning towards the 4:30 start time because I don't want my guests to miss out on the sunset. But I want to get great pics after he ceremony. There would still be 48 minutes for pics before the sunset (with 12 minutes after sunset) and we have a small guest list & bridal party (only a MOH & BM ) ...so not too many group shots to do besides our bride/groom pics. We are also doing a first look and some pics before the ceremony.

Any thoughts or feedback people can give would be appreciated! My FH thinks its weird that I am stressing over this but I want to make the right choice and once its on the invitation, it can't be changed!

14 Comments

Latest activity by Kristen, on August 5, 2014 at 12:49 PM
  • Lauren
    Super October 2014
    Lauren ·
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    If you're so worried about the lighting then why not start at 4? I think 4:30 will be ok as well but 4 will definitely give you plenty of that "golden hour" lighting that your photographer is looking for. I think 4:15 is kind of an odd start time.

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  • Milwaukee_Bride
    VIP August 2014
    Milwaukee_Bride ·
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    I agree with Lauren - either do 4pm or 4:30pm. 4:15 is such an odd time.

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  • S
    Dedicated September 2014
    Strawberry Cheeks ·
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    You can put 4 on your invitation and start at 4:15, I've noticed lately that people are so late to everything and this way you get your 4:15 time and the invitation timing isn't so odd.

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  • Celia Milton
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    Invite at 4:00: start at 4:15.

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  • Kristen
    Dedicated January 2015
    Kristen ·
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    I think 4:00 might be too early. We would be done taking pics before the sun is setting and our guests would be seated and watching our first dance during the sunset so no one would see it.

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  • OG Ruth
    Master October 2015
    OG Ruth ·
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    Invite for 4pm but have ceremony start at 4:15. That way there's time for the last minute people to get there & take their seats.

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  • xograce
    Expert February 2015
    xograce ·
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    My FH's relatives are notoriously late so giving them 15 minutes would be my preference with a 4 PM on invites and starting a bit after that.

    I'm also getting married in Florida - our sunset isn't until 6:30 though. That being said, I'm having our ceremony start at 5 even though we don't have cocktail hour until 6-7. This gives us some wiggle room in terms of ceremony start time so we don't run behind.

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  • L + R
    Master September 2014
    L + R ·
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    I say have the ceremony at 4:30. I had this issue as well and honestly, the sun won't FULLY set until about half an hour after it starts. So depending on how long the ceremony is (30-40MIN based upon what you're saying?) You still have at least an hour to get in some great shots. My invitations just said "sunset" because I don't have a venue that's keeping tabs on my time. Don't sweat this too much. All will flow nicely.

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  • MelissaC
    Master January 2015
    MelissaC ·
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    Won't a beach wedding in January be really cold? Florida still gets cold. I'd say start it when there is still plenty of sunlight to keep you and your guests warm.

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  • Samantha
    Beginner April 2015
    Samantha ·
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    4:15 is an odd time to start a ceremony, it should be either 4 or 4:30. Your photographer knows better than your wedding planner or your venue on sun lighting. Ask him if he thinks 4:30 would be ok, or even 4.

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  • Mrs. Ames
    Devoted January 2015
    Mrs. Ames ·
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    Hello Almost date-twin Smiley smile

    I was worried about the sun as well... seeing as we aren't doing a First Look, my photographer and I talked about having the ceremony at 3 so there was time afterwards to get perty pics before the sun went down.

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  • Kylene
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    I'd listen to the planner more than the photographer. If you're worried about lighting, do some of the photos before so you don't need the full hour after. I agree not to start at 4:15, it's a weird time and I'd totally forget. Your guests probably will too.

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  • Emmy
    Master January 2015
    Emmy ·
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    When does your reception start? I suggest the time that coincides with that.

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  • Kristen
    Dedicated January 2015
    Kristen ·
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    Yes, January is the coolest month. But the average is 75 degrees. Considering our guests are coming from below zero weather in Minnesota, we aren't too worried about it. It will feel like heat wave to us...especially I for us in full wedding attire!

    I like the idea of having it be as warm as possible for guests. But I don't want dinner to be too early.We have the reception room until 11pm...if dinner is over too early that is a lot of time just for the dance. And we have a very small group many of which are not big dancers. And we only have the photographer for 6 hours...so I worry about pushing it earlier and having her leave too early in the evening.

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