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Anna
Beginner September 2021

Standing Ceremony Ideas

Anna, on July 17, 2020 at 10:58 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 4

I'm having a very intimate wedding of 25 guests in New York City. For the ceremony, we're working with our officiant (my stepdad, a Presbyterian minister!) to put together a 10-15 minute ceremony, maximum, to take place on New York's spacious Pier 15 (with an events permit).

None of our guests have compromised mobility, and we will be on a public pier, so we are planning a brief standing ceremony (and guests will be informed beforehand). But I'm having trouble visualizing how to get 25 people to seamlessly assemble for a standing ceremony. I know traditional seated ceremonies obviously have chairs to note where people should be, but we won't have chairs to guide people. Should I put together an aisle (flower petals, a runner) and have my greeters tell people to stand on either side? Should our families be encouraged to mingle with a cold drink and space to gather, and then directed by the officiant to make some sort of assembly? Is there a more "creative" formation or method of gathering people? I want to make a formal entrance, but I do not have my heart set on an actual aisle, necessarily.

Any ideas you guys have would be so awesome!


**EDIT: I've seen a lot of forums where people insist a standing ceremony is Not The Move. I can personally assure that all 25 of my guests can stand for a short ceremony, and we can work around the benches at the Pier 15 in the event of a last-minute "seating emergency." I'm really looking more for ideas for how to execute a standing ceremony, and not "if it's okay or not." Thanks in advance team!

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on July 17, 2020 at 3:23 PM
  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
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    I would set up something to designate an aisle, and I think people are generally smart enough to figure it out from there. Usually the officiant makes some kind of announcement that it’s time to start, and that would be the cue to space out on either side of the aisle. I hadn’t thought About this before going to an outdoor standing ceremony, but if you have someone photographing It looks better to have people on either side of an a aisle in pictures.
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  • Anna
    Beginner September 2021
    Anna ·
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    Thanks Jessica, I think that's a great idea for sure! My sister will be playing an acoustic guitar; I thought about doing a casual flower petal/eucalyptus aisle that ends with a guitar stand "altar" so people have a visual cue. Then our officiant giving the verbal cue will be helpful too, I think. We'll be on a pier with a view of the Brooklyn Bridge and all of our guests are out-of-town, so I'm sure they'll want to spend a couple of minutes taking photos and checking out of the view and need a cue to be called over.

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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
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    I’ve never been to NY, but I’m sure it’s going to turn out beautifully! I would definitely be taking lots of pictures! I think flower petals and/or eucalyptus is a great aisle marker and simple. It’s sweet that your sister is going to be playing the guitar, no one on my family is that talented! Lol!
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    I think your plans sound lovely Anna! ❤️ Visually designating an aisle will definitely help your guests, and I think mingling with a drink until the officiate announces their about to get started is perfect! 🥂

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