I'm having the silliest dilemma and would appreciate some opinions. I was raised in a Christian household. I love having a relationship with God and love the idea of moving in with my husband after marriage. Our wedding is May 28 but for work purposes (he's becoming a firefighter) we might have to legally get married late April (not having a ceremony just signing papers). And then in our big May wedding we'll just have our pastor perform the ceremony and pray for us etc.
My confusion is when do I move in with FH?
Since we each live with our parents we're getting an apartment May 1st and he's moving in but I was supposed to join him May 28 after our wedding. But if we're gonna be legally married at the end of April should I just move in with him May 1st? Again I know this is silly but I've waited so long doing things "the right way" I don't know if I might as well just wait till our big wedding. And this is not about people judging me . . it's about personal conviction.
What would you do?