Spin Off- Virgins..first time doing it!

It may hurt a little at first and be a bit uncomfortable but practice makes perfect!! Eventually you guys will figure it out and enjoy it! There's nothing better than sharing that moment with the man/woman you love more than anything.

Being wasted helps

My first time was definitely a little painful, but I was also way too young to be having sex in the first place. I definitely think that with the right amount of preparation, it shouldn't be all that painful. Foreplay is the key word. Your FH should definitely be reading up on how to make sure you're physically ready before trying penetration. Will this be his first time as well?

I honestly don't recall it hurting....

Have you masturbated? Are you familiar with yourself down there? Do you know what an orgasm feels like?

I honestly think as long as you know your body, and aren't all Charlotte in SATC who never looked at her own pussy until she was in her late 30s, then you'll be fine!

I could've drawn a self-portrait of my vag by the time I was 16, so.

Kudos to you both for waiting!!

Might want to pick you up a bottle of KY just in case. I know the first few times I did it with my FH it was painful and i wasn't as prepared as I should've been.

Your FH should definitely be reading up on how to make sure you're physically ready before trying penetration

On that note, if it feels like a desert, get the lube, and if it feels like a slip'n'slide, you're good to go.

@Kayla No this will not be his first time having sex, but it's been about 7 years since he has done it. So he also has expressed that he's also little nervous.

My first time was painful. Even though he took it slow and was really respectful, I spent most of my first time wishing it was over. I didn't bleed or anything, but it was pretty uncomfortable and I was definitely a bit sore for the next day or so. However, it got much better very quickly after that. The second time wasn't painful, but it wasn't good, and by the third time, I was starting to enjoy myself! Patience, using lots of lube, and making sure you spend a lot of time on foreplay will help make your first time as good as it can be!

ETA: And don't put a ton of pressure on yourself to make it happen on that night! One of my dear friends (who I'm close enough to discuss this stuff with, lol) told me that she was very petit down there and her bf was pretty large and that she and her bf had to work their way up to it over a few times. It took a little longer than they expected, but they eventually got it and from what I've heard, their sex life was pretty great!

Keep a towel handy, pick up some lube (don't buy anything fancy like fire&ice for your first time. Keep it simple), don't put too much pressure on yourself.

First times tend to be awkward and painful. Definitely get some lube. Don't expect or try to make it like be like it is in the movies. movies. Just enjoy each other

My first time didn't hurt, it was mostly uncomfortable. Make sure you're good and ready before you start anything and just ease into it.

Go pee after.

Don't put too much pressure on doing the deed the night of the wedding. I know a couple of married couples that were virgins before they got married and the trend seems to be that you'll be too exhausted after the wedding to even consider it. The grooms were a little disappointed so I'd give yours a little time to mentally prepare for that outcome if you think it might be a possibility.

It may be a bit uncomfortable or painful bjt it shouldnt be that bad as long as your fh takes his time and makes sure your ready for penetation. Best advise i have is to relax and remember that foreplay is important.

I'll add to make it very natural- you don't want to be sitting there and then be like, "yeah so I guess we sex now?" and then go into it. If you're making out and it starts getting heavier, let it progress. Don't force yourselves to have sex just because it's your wedding night and now you "can".

Just be in the moment and don't overthink it. Let him know if he needs to be gentler and don't be afraid to speak up if it's very painful. There are a lot of positions and what works for other people might not work for you.

My first time didn't hurt and I didn't bleed at all. I played sports all of my life, so I don't know if that helped or if that's a myth.

Unfortunately the concept of pain is often associated with first time penetration, but it doesnt have to be! Often, intense pain is due to lack of lubrication and not feeling at ease. Go slow, enjoy all the moments (foreplay) leading up to the actual penetration. If there is a lot of pain or anxiety it is okay to hold off!! I know many couples (whether it be their first time or not) that don't have sex on the first night for various reasons (i.e., feeling exhausted from the day) and that is okay too!!!

If you have used a tampon you probably won't bleed. I didn't bleed at all nor did it hurt...didn't exactly feel great but it wasn't like painful.

Lube is a good recommendation. Also I wouldn't plan on it lasting very long the first time. Maybe go ahead and schedule a second time in there.

Don't underestimate foreplay!