Song Choices Help!

Hello! We have to have our music to our wedding planner soon and I have no clue on a few! We are having a violinist at the ceremony and dj at the reception.

Grooms walk down song- ordinary people by John legend (violin)
Bride Walk down song- I’m thinking speechless by Dan and shay? He took me to see them on my birthday with VIP backstage pre concert so they hold a special place in our heart. Is any one else not picking the traditional bridal songs? My mom was kind of upset, but she had her time. Side note, our wedding planner sent me a list and the opera song from step brothers was an option. I know I’m going to be bawling my eyes out, but maybe that would help me from ugly crying😂

Our first dance is a little cliche, but Marry Me by train

HELP!
Father and Daugter Dance- my dad and I HATE country so that Tim McGraw song is out. Any advice on good songs?
Mother and Son- they told me to pick. They don’t care, yay something else I have to pick🙄 any advice or options on this one?? They don’t have a song that’s close to them but nothing too mushy they said

**Side note I am for sure not picking the Step Brothers song!