Soldering rings together?

I've never heard of this to be totally honest

My mother and grandmothers and his mother and grandmothers did and I plan to. Why is opposed to the idea? Does he want you to just wear your wedding ring? Does he think it will look bad? Does he think it's unusual? Almost all the married women I know have their rings soldered.

No one in his family has their rings soldered together, he hadn't really heard of it before I'd mentioned it and he said he thought it might damage the rings. We'll talk to the jeweler when we look at wedding bands and see what they say too.

I did and it was annoying to me but I have big knuckles. I ended up getting them separated.

It does depend on what rings you get. Some rings would be damaged, many wouldn't. Talking to your jeweler is a good idea.

I am not...i know people who get new rings for their anniversarys

I have never heard of this but I LOVE it. I'm going to see if this can be done for me. ETA: FH bought my e-ring and band in a set, so they match and if I were to change or upgrade one, I'd do both.

I'm not. My e-ring and wedding band are completely different designs and metals. Plus, I want to be able to wear my band without my e-ring sometimes.

I did. I wear both . I needed rings to be resized and FH said do it all at once . Didn't care for ering without band.

I'm going to solder mine after the ceremony. My band is a shadow band and very thin/delicate so our jeweler suggested it. Due to the style of my band I'll never wear it alone without my engagement ring so I'm not too worried over it.