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MOHx3
Savvy July 2018

So, we talked to the Bride...

MOHx3, on December 4, 2017 at 11:19 AM Posted in Planning 0 4

Not sure if any of you remember me from Friday, hello again. Here is my update..

Dinner with my sister was Friday evening. The BP and myself all went and she immediately tried to hand out jobs. Shut that down REAL quick. It got heated, and now one of the girls are out. She basically thinks we owe her all this sh!t. Yeah, we don't.

3 weeks.. she has been engaged three weeks.

She is mad we are planning a huge bach party for our friend next weekend, she wants to know where hers will be.

She is mad we cannot go dress shopping next weekend due to this party. We have other weekends.

She overall is a buzz kill. As much as I understand she is stressed not being able to do this with FH, that is not our fault nor is it our responsibility to step in.

Sister or not, I am far from pleased.

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Latest activity by BlueHenBride, on December 4, 2017 at 11:58 AM
  • MOHx3
    Savvy July 2018
    MOHx3 ·
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    Kristin, one would think.

    Our parents offered up a wedding planner.. but no. She HAS to do it on her own. It is the "fun of it"

    Bullshit. Fun for who?

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  • Brianna
    VIP May 2018
    Brianna ·
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    Yikes, I think she should strongly reconsider getting the wedding planner rather than "doing it on her own" which really means pushing it all off on the bridal party.

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    Dedicated March 2018
    Baylee ·
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    Oh wow. Yeah I wouldn't put up with that for a second. Tell her she's only three weeks into her engagement acting like a bridezilla and she's going to push everyone away if she keeps this up. And I'd be done with it from there. She'll see, people won't tolerate that for long

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    Good for you for standing up to her about the jobs! You would think having a BM drop out already because she was asking too much would make her realize she's asking too much. I hope you and the other BMs continue to stay firm and your sister gets the message that her wedding is her responsibility and her BP members are not her employees who do jobs.

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