My fiance and I got engaged two days after my future brother-in-law. My fiance and his brother planned the engagements around their mom's birthday party because the entire family was going to be in town for her party. Most of my husband's family live two hours from where we plan on getting married with the exception of his two brothers. The brother that is also engaged lives in Ohio which is where he plans on getting married. My husband and I haven't signed a contract with our venue yet as we just received the contract on Monday and we were reviewing it to make sure we agree with everything in it. Before we settled on a date, we reached out to everyone that we deemed essential for our wedding so like bridal party, siblings, and parents to make sure they would be able to make it on the day we selected. So my fiance's brother knew the date we were looking at having our wedding, but he called last night and apparently the venue him and his fiance love only has one weekend available for next fall which would put their wedding two weeks after ours. My future brother-in-law apparently thought when he proposed that they would have a long engagement so it wouldn't in any way interfere with my fiance's plan to propose and get married next year. After my fiance talked with his brother, my fiance thinks we need to move our wedding date. Otherwise his family would have to travel for both weddings in a very short time period. I have always wanted an October wedding so I really don't want to move our wedding date. I also am not sure what the venue we planned on booking has available. I am so upset, but my fiance thinks I am being selfish because I really don't want to move our wedding. Any advice? I don't want my fiance or his family upset with me, but I also don't really want to give up having a fall wedding.
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