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Devoted October 2021

So Annoying!

Fany, on July 15, 2020 at 5:06 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 10
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Ladies (and gents),

Does it ever annoy you when others ask you, "How's wedding planning?" recently. Ummmm it's not going the best, we're in the middle of a pandemic! Hellloooo?!


  • Caitlin
    Expert January 2021
    Caitlin ·
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    Annoys me as well, lol! But only because I'm so stressed. I think they mean well (at least for the most part). Try to just enjoy everything 😂 it's honestly such a process.
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  • Leanne
    Expert September 2020
    Leanne ·
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    LOL yes!! It’s annoying but I think they’re just curious as to what the heck I’m doing. I don’t even know yet and I’m 50 days out from our NEW date 🧐
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  • Katie
    Expert August 2021
    Katie ·
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    It doesn't bother me. Even during this pandemic. What bothers me though is that I never ever bring up my wedding to anyone other than my fiance obviously, my bridesmaids and my parents. So when people at work or my friends ask how it's going and I tell them all about it, then they get annoyed and tell others that it's all I ever talk about is the wedding. Like "omg I've been hearing about her wedding for a year now". It annoys me because it's like if you don't want to hear me talk about my wedding then don't ask.
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  • Emily
    Rockstar August 2020
    Emily ·
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    Or the “oooh so what can y’all do for a honeymoon 😬” knowing damn well we aren’t supposed to be traveling, it’s almost kind of upsetting to be asked tbh.
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  • Nicole
    Beginner June 2021
    Nicole ·
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    YES. This is all I get from people. And I know maybe it’s more them trying to make “small talk”, but how can you imagine it is going??? It ain’t great!!
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar October 2020
    Michelle ·
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    Yea I don’t really like talking about it...
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  • Marcia
    Devoted March 2021
    Marcia ·
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    I get sad when people who I wanted there but will have to cut from the guest list now ask me. What am I supposed to say? "It's going so poorly and you unfortunately are no longer on the guest list" ??
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  • C
    Savvy September 2020
    Cristal ·
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    I laughed at this because I can totally relate!
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  • Alma
    Devoted October 2020
    Alma ·
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    I hated the “hows the wedding planning going” question even before the pandemic 😂. But now, the “are you still having your wedding?” Is the absolute worst ! Lol
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  • W
    Dedicated October 2020
    Waitingtomarry20 ·
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    Yes! Especially from husband’s side of the family. I’m like,”Hello, there’s a pandemic going on and no body knows what to do day by day!”
    He told them to stop asking because it kept making me upset. There’s already pressure to plan a wedding for people to attend and you get all this stuff on top of it.
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