Fh and I just got engaged and no one knows yet, but for years now people have been asking when we are getting married but here's the deal. We agreed long ago that we wanted a very small wedding. Parents, siblings, and 2 of our bffs for years. So pretty much less than 20 people.
Personally I dont care or want any extended family at the wedding, they are all nothing but drama and all about themselves and this is where the problems are. I know as soon as we announce that we are engaged the questions are going to come pouring in and I dont know how to address this.
Personally I dont like the "sorry (money or venue) is an issue" because I am really not sorry. But what i really want to say is "your not invited so why does it matter" can you tell how much i cant stand these people? The ONLY reason. I am nervous about these questions is i know whatever comes out of my mouth they are going to run to my dad and tattle like 2 year olds, and frankly I'm scared my dad wont show up to my wedding because of this (and yes it would be like him to choose his siblings over his daughter) . So basically how do I tell someone I dont want them there without almost gagging telling them I'm sorry?
Anyone else had horrid family they have had to deal with? I'm not sure if this is a rant or a question y'all help!