Small Wedding with no dancing?

Hi everyone, I am proposing to my girlfriend in the next two months. She doesn't know when it is coming but we have talked about the marriage in depth. We both are introverts with a very small circle of friends (Probably around 5 good friends each) very small families (Maybe 20 or a little more) and a few dear family friends we want to invite. We've toyed around with the idea of having a small wedding since we hate attention, and spending the most on our honeymoon. I have looked into doing a dinner type set up but my partner says it would be weird to have everyone from opposite families just sitting there since they have not met yet but we both know we will NOT dance at all so not sure what the point of making the reception around other people's wants.. Any ideas??