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Haley
Just Said Yes September 2021

Small, intimate wedding help

Haley, on May 12, 2020 at 10:26 PM Posted in Planning 2 5
We’ve been engaged for over a year now but haven’t started planning. One thing I do know is that we want a very small wedding (under 50 people), but I have no idea where to start. I don’t want a huge venue that makes the wedding feel weird and I don’t know if I want a traditional reception or something more low key. I still want it to feel like a wedding, but with so few guests, I also want it to make sense. If you had a small wedding, what did you do for venue/reception/etc? We also live about 7 hours from most of our family. I’m torn on having it in our new town because it would be easiest on us but I still want people to be able to attend and 7 hours may be too far of a distance.

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Latest activity by Mrs.a, on May 13, 2020 at 8:19 AM
  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    We had 44 people. We had six reception tables and still had a DJ and dancing. Even though there weren’t tons of guests people still had a blast. Everyone had to travel. Our guests live all over the country so there was just no way to keep that from happening.
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  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
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    What about having it at a community center or VFW? similar to a town hall. That would be a good size! We are doing an outside ceremony in a garden 5/16/20 but with 10 people
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  • Kimberly
    Super March 2021
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    We are getting married March 13, 2029 at a small lodge venue in the Smoky Mountains. We expect to have 36 guests, our venue only allows 40 total including bride and groom. The ceremony will be outside overlooking the mountains and the short reception is just inside their fireplace room. And then we are doing a pancake breakfast the following morning.


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  • Mel
    Savvy September 2020
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    So I am currently planning a small wedding of under 50 guests. My first suggestion would be to do some research on which venues will be appropriate for you. We did not meet the minimum number for most venues so our options were limited. However, reach out to venues that you like anyway because they may own smaller, sister venues/sites. We ended up finding the perfect location and it only holds up to 75 guests so it won’t seem “empty”.
    I originally was all over the place with planning...but eventually I decided to treat it as if it were a larger wedding. We have someone playing acoustic guitar during the ceremony, cocktail hour and dinner, and then he will dj later in the night. I should have 6 tables altogether, but we are going to push them together (2 sets of 3 tables) to make them large, long farmhouse style....that was actually the easiest way to figure out the seating arrangement! Talk to your venue about that because the table shape/size will probably play a role in your planning.
    You got this!!!!
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  • Mrs.a
    Master October 2021
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    We’re having a very small wedding with 30 guests. We started with venues and went from there. Many wedding venues will not accommodate small weddings so we got creative. Looked at BNB’s and then AirBNB’s & restaurants. We found an Airbnb that was willing to accommodate and a cafe that’s part of a larger venue that they would cater and host our dinner/reception.
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