I am curious about people's thoughts and opinions about a small elopement prior to the big wedding? My fiance and I have been engaged a long time and I am so in love with the idea of marrying him still; however, my love of the traditional wedding has faded as people keep getting more selfish in the process. I have my FMIL who won't even be at the wedding shower, and my FSIL who is a bridesmaid solely because of being my fiance's sister who has literally not tried to be involved in anything so I have had to use my FMIL to communicate with her in order to figure out what she actually is participating in. I also have my MOH who has a new boyfriend and has completely changed how she acts and I am lucky to even talk to her once a month or so so then I had to take over planning my wedding shower after she offered in the 1st place to do it and every time I bring up a concern she tells me I am just trying to replace her with another girl who is a bridesmaid which is not the case (this is not high school so I am not sure how being replaced as best friend is even a thing).. Anyway, with this stuff as well as plenty more, my fiance and I are considering a small elopement type of day where only parents and super close friends have the option of coming (no obligation obviously since we will still have the regular wedding) I just feel like our day isn't actually about us anymore and I would love something just about us
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