We are only inviting 20 of our close friends and family to the ceremony portion, but everyone else is invited to the reception after. Should I do separate invitations for those who are attending both? For the reception invitations, I was planning on saying something like "join us in celebrating our marriage." Maybe I could order 20 separate invites that say join us for our wedding, reception to follow? Or maybe just a verbal would suffice? Anyone else have a similar situation?