Hi everyone, so due to covid we have decided to abandon our large wedding dreams and have downsized the wedding to a smaller intimate number. Initially, we decided we would get married with just our immediate families, but after much deliberation, I decided to invite a friend or two, and my fiance is inviting his best man. I had originally told my bridesmaids that it would just be immediate family, but now two of my friends will attend. My question is do I have to tell my bridesmaids that I extended the invitation to some of them? For some backstory, my MOH is very pregnant, and out of state, two are out of state, 2 said they weren't comfortable coming to an outdoor ceremony, but 2 said they would be there if I had moved it to an outdoor venue, and then I extended an invitation to the remaining two (IF THEY WANTED). I'm asking because I don't want anyone to be offended if they see my wedding video later, and they are in the video. I am just not sure how to approach this situation.